tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16408662.post5854300883105519394..comments2023-05-12T05:34:21.499-04:00Comments on Being Kate: Dragging OnKatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09320966027459989422noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16408662.post-69436869208657365342008-01-24T10:28:00.000-05:002008-01-24T10:28:00.000-05:00So when I read this post that Culture Club song ca...So when I read this post that Culture Club song came to mind. I don't know what's going on with the soundtrack in my head, but I think the playlist is on 80s music.<BR/><BR/>"I'll tumble for ya. I'll tumble for ya. I'll tumble for yoooooou." Damn soundtrack. I was singing "I don't need another HEEEEEERO!...Life beyond the Thunderdome." GREAT! Now it's in there again.kismetsCIRCUShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13437227868674753821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16408662.post-67265836148693514162008-01-23T23:34:00.000-05:002008-01-23T23:34:00.000-05:00When a man loves a woman he does not expect her to...When a man loves a woman he does not expect her to learn to ski in less than one day. He does not expect her to be perfect. Please do not take the blame for this break up all on your shoulders because you didn't try hard enough at this or that. As I read these three blogs I see a guy treat his gal like shit, and I see gal blame herself for his bad behavior. This is like the gal who is beat up, and she thinks that if she just tries harder, has dinner on the table at the right time, and doesn't make him mad, he won't hit her again! No he doesn't hit you, but the behavior between the two of you is the same. You deserve so much MORE! You are worth so much more! <BR/>It's hard to move on, it's hard to be alone, but I know you can do it. You are a wonderful person and someone out there, just as wonderful will recognize that and love you completely without judgement and impossible expectations. <BR/>Your friends and I all love you very much, now go out and party with them!! <BR/>Love ya,<BR/>BekkiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16408662.post-72394521551315979182008-01-23T16:40:00.000-05:002008-01-23T16:40:00.000-05:00thinking of you....*hugs*thinking of you....<BR/>*hugs*Missyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05626931508724913025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16408662.post-5679990486331519672008-01-23T15:53:00.000-05:002008-01-23T15:53:00.000-05:00I know how much this sucks, but sometimes it *is* ...I know how much this sucks, but sometimes it *is* just better to walk away completely. I remember Eric and I tried to get together *three* times. We kept trying to get together because we honestly really cared about each other, but everytime we got back into a relationship we sunk into that same dysfunctional pattern. I got out of it, spent a ton of money/time in therapy, became a better person, started dating someone new and am shocked that I let myself be unhappy as long as I did. I think it's good to just take some time to, as you said, reconnect with your therapist, become a little stronger and start fresh. I know it sucks, Kate, but you can *so* get through this.Anonymous Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17535873074365279392noreply@blogger.com